Wednesday, February 17, 2010

My very own homepage






This webpage is no longer available on internet now since geocities.com has been winded up. However, I still got the works saved in my PC till now. I did it while I was jobless after getting married and when I still have passion in developing website. This is a work of celebrating our marriage at that time too. There are many photos of our ROM, wedding, honey moon trip and studio album's photos. (However, I am shy to share with any of you now.)

Joining Asialink has leaded me to web design and then programming. Thanks to Mr Leo Meng Lock who has taken me into the team although I know nothing about web design, internet, website and photos touch up. What I could guarantee to him was that I would like to learn anything that I didn't know at all.

That's where my power of self study had grown.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Boyish
























































I am second in family and I was very boyish that time. No dress for me... Even being beaten up by mum also no deal. hey~hey!

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

我们懂得独处吗?



是的,我们必须懂得。

无论此时此刻有多少亲人在我们的身边相处着,我们依然得学会一个人独处。

因为,

也许有那么一天,我们必须一个人过日子,只能在回忆里思念着亲爱的人。

也许有那么一天,我们得永远离开亲爱的人们,独自“上路”。

到时候,我们能活得或能走得坦然吗?

所以,如何独处得自然,是我们必修的一门智慧。

Thursday, February 4, 2010

悼念姑丈

新加坡的姑丈在1月26日那天下午逝世了,享年68岁。

听姑姑说,临终前已经不会说话和睁开眼睛的他,流着泪水,拉着姑姑的手往外拐,意思要姑姑走开,他就是不愿意姑姑目送他离开。 最终,姑姑也不忍心看见他喘着气辛苦,就出去病房外和护士说话,不久之后,他的侄女说他已经走了。

我和他结缘在1997年,当时一个人到新加坡工作时,就寄宿在他们的家里。起初有点怕他,因为他的话不多,好似有点孤僻。但渐渐的才发现他是个没有脾气的人,还时常请我和啤酒。最记得有一次和同事放工后去玩,到凌晨才回,隔天姑姑告诉我下次要记得通知他们,因为姑丈昨晚担心了。听了后好惭愧,因为让他担心了很不好,从此每次若是迟回都会向他们报告。

姑丈在所有认识他的人的眼里,是个不多话但心地好的亲人朋友。和姑姑结发24年,没有孩子。丧事由姑丈的侄儿、侄女、外生等人筹办。 这就是他人缘非常好的证明。
唉!这个新年有点愁云,因为想到姑姑将一个人度过新年。以前去那里都有姑丈的陪伴,现在却得一个人守着房子。不过,姑丈也曾说过,将来让他先走,因为姑姑有很多朋友,生活比较多采,而他的朋友不多,若是姑姑先走,他会过得更孤单。

希望姑姑在朋友们的支持和照顾之下,会很快适应一个人的日子,把姑丈放在心里,哪里都带着。而姑丈的容颜也将深刻在吾脑海里,永远记得。

看到他们,要
提醒我们自己别老跟另一半怄气了,人生苦短,别让一时的不快坏了感情。